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We are what we think. All that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts, we make the world.
Siddhartha Gautama (aka The Buddha)
"You don't actually experience the world—instead, you filter reality through the state of your nervous system."
Jonny Miller
"Not all addictions are rooted in abuse or trauma, but I do believe they can all be traced to painful experience."
Dr. Gabor Maté
"In the beginner's mind there are many possibilities, but in the expert's mind there are few."
Shunryu Suzuki
"If you love someone, the best way to show it is to respect their freedom."
Thich Nhat Hanh
"One of the most important things you can do to change your brain is to change your mind."
Robert Sapolsky
"Trauma is not what happens to you, but what happens inside you as a result of what happens to you."
Bessel van der Kolk
"Culture is the collective programming of the mind that distinguishes the members of one group of people from another."
Geert Hofstede
"The mind is not a blank slate, but an intricate tapestry of biological and cultural influences."
David Geary
"My ultimate goal is to reduce the number of street dogs in the world by fifty percent."
Niall Harbison
"Play is the highest form of development in childhood. It alone is the free expression of what is in a child's soul."
Lev Vygotsky
"The view you adopt for yourself profoundly affects the way you lead your life."
Carol Dweck
"Morality is not a subject; it's a perspective from which every subject can be taught."
Lawrence Kohlberg
"The mind is a collection of specialized modules, each designed to solve specific adaptive problems."
John Tooby
"Our brains have been sculpted by evolution to solve the adaptive problems of our ancestors."
Leda Cosmides
"Human emotions are complex adaptations that solve adaptive problems related to survival and reproduction."
David Buss
"Evolution is not a ladder with humans at the top. It's a branching tree with all species connected and interdependent."
George Williams
"The goal of neuroscience is to understand the brain well enough to repair it when it breaks."
David Eagleman
"The most creative people are those who habitually resist the security of habit and embrace the uncertainty of the new."
Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi
"The opposite of courage in our society is not cowardice, it's conformity."
Rollo May
"Our perception of reality is not a direct reflection of the world; it is filtered through our biases and expectations."
George Miller
"Intuition feels just the same when it's wrong and when it's right, that's the problem with intuition."
Daniel Kahneman
"Perception is not the passive receipt of sensory information, but an active process of interpreting it."
Ulric Neisser
"Family members who have the least amount of reactivity to others in the family are the most emotionally mature."
Murray Bowen
"The love for all living creatures is the most noble attribute of man."
Charles Darwin
"I was always looking outside myself for strength and confidence, but it comes from within. It is there all the time."
Anna Freud
"The most inspiring achievements of civilization are the ones that expanded the scope of human sympathy."
Steven Pinker
"Our brain is a complex biological organ that is constantly changing in response to experience."
Eric Kandel
"We are all controlled by the world in which we live, and part of that world has been and will be constructed by men."
B.F. Skinner
"Mental disorders are metabolic disorders of the brain."
Christopher Palmer, MD
"Man's main concern is not to gain pleasure or to avoid pain but rather to see a meaning in his life."
Viktor Frankl
"The principle goal of education is to create men who are capable of doing new things, not simply of repeating what other generations have done."
Jean Piaget
"The good life is a process, not a state of being. It is a direction, not a destination."
Carl Rogers
"A musician must make music, an artist must paint, a poet must write, if he is to be ultimately at peace with himself."
Abraham Maslow
"Man's main task in life is to give birth to himself, to become what he potentially is."
Erich Fromm
"The richest and fullest lives attempt to achieve an inner balance between three realms: work, love, and play."
Erik Erikson
"The only normal people are the ones you don't know very well."
Alfred Adler
"I am not what happened to me, I am what I choose to become."
Carl Jung
"The past is present until it is resolved."
Francine Shapiro
"Anxiety and depressive affect are not a sign of personal weakness, but a manifestation of the human condition."
Melanie Klein
"If you want to understand your own life, you have to understand your mother's life."
Karen Horney
"One day, in retrospect, the years of struggle will strike you as the most beautiful."
Sigmund Freud